Happiness

If my happiness is the most important thing to me, then I become the “object” / “Idol” and everything is for and about my agenda. The “object” (My  agenda) puts pressure on a marriage or any relationship business or personal. It tends to attract the “temptation” of happiness and or pleasure. These now “objects” of happiness(or Anything I worship more than….) will ALL FAIL because the ROOTS ARE SHALLOW! If we “choose” God’s plans it then gives us our “purpose and value” A clarity seen far beyond our own agenda, purpose and understanding  . Simply because we chose His life above all things. We then feed HIS objective with his WORD of LIFE. This will show its fruits(our character) from the seed planted in “God’s soil” in our MARRIAGE  and in our commitments, only “Then” will our roots “GROW” DEEP and “STAY” DEEP. MARRIAGE then becomes an expression of what God “clearly” tells us it is. “For HIM”. Yes, even marriage isn’t for us. Its for HIM. And if both people in that MARRIAGE live and love God first as he has mercifully commanded  and shown us how to do with an instruction manual FULL of knowledge to be grown into VISION. Then our MARRIAGES have a law which can only be defined and be  known as our true “objective” source.